Hotel with Thanksgiving Dinner?

Question

Hi,

Considering a trip from NYC to Sonoma Valley (4 of us, 2 adults and 2 kids, ages 10 and 14) in November and wondering if there is a nice secluded ranch or farm we could stay at that might offer a Thanksgiving of sorts? We aren't big into the meal but would like it to feel festive!

Thanks,

Sabrina

Answer

Hi Sabrina,

Sonoma Valley in November is a wonderful choice for a cozy, festive getaway. While many hotels and resorts offer standard accommodations, a few properties in the region have a more intimate, ranch or farm-like atmosphere and may host Thanksgiving events or provide a special holiday meal experience. Even if the full meal isn’t your priority, these places often focus on seasonal décor, family-friendly activities, and a festive ambiance that makes the holiday feel special.

Here are some options to consider:

MacArthur Place Hotel & Spa – Located in downtown Sonoma, this historic estate hotel often has Thanksgiving packages or special seasonal menus at their on-site restaurant. The setting is elegant yet intimate, with gardens and a relaxed atmosphere that suits families.
Kenwood Inn and Spa – Nestled in the hills near Kenwood, this boutique inn has a charming ranch-like vibe. Some years they offer Thanksgiving dinners or you can reserve a private meal experience. The grounds are quiet, perfect for a small family escape.
Sonoma Valley Ranch B&Bs and Farm Stays – There are a few small ranches and working farms around Sonoma (for example, Blacksmith Ranch or local Airbnb farm stays) that offer private accommodations and sometimes a Thanksgiving meal or can help coordinate a local chef. These are more secluded and give that authentic farm feel.
Harvest Inn by Charlie Palmer – A classic Sonoma option with cozy rooms, fireplaces, and sometimes Thanksgiving specials at their restaurant. The property feels festive and warm, with great grounds for kids to explore.

Since Thanksgiving is a popular travel time, it’s best to book early and check directly with the property about special holiday offerings. If none of the hotels have a formal Thanksgiving dinner, many Sonoma Valley restaurants also host Thanksgiving meals, which could be paired with a stay at one of the smaller, quieter inns for a combined experience.

Other tips for a festive stay:

Consider booking a property with a fireplace or outdoor seating so you can enjoy the fall ambiance, even if you don’t have a formal dinner onsite.
Look for accommodations near wineries or farms that offer seasonal activities such as pumpkin picking, hiking, or small festivals.
Check local Sonoma Valley tourism sites for Thanksgiving events like wine tastings, craft markets, or community dinners.

With a mix of a charming rural setting and access to Sonoma’s culinary scene, you can have a cozy, festive Thanksgiving experience without feeling obliged to a large formal meal. November is also quieter than the peak summer months, so a secluded ranch or farm stay will feel more peaceful.

Enjoy your trip and the festive Sonoma Valley experience!